Hi, a little background info, I’m a 42 year old divorced father of one, blue collar worker from Wisconsin. Into just about everything at one time or other, at least in my head, but have been into chastity play since I was 22 and heard of it.
It was then and still is considered too weird to talk about in public, so like most men do, locked it away in fantasy land never to return. Instead I dated,women that were strong, independent, and actually kinda cruel, thinking I would end up where I wanted. Turns out I never trusted them enough, or could communicate with them enough to tell them of my submissive needs.
I thought it was all over on that kinda stuff, in fact I didn’t think I would ever be close enough to someone I could not only trust with my secret, but trust with my sexuality.
Then I met this wonderful woman that is crazy about me, super giving, beautiful, and smart. I knew from our time together my kinks were something she would not have heard of and decided to just let that go. After awhile I have gotten so close to her, that it would feel like lying if she didn’t know the real me. I have gone all my life hiding my sexual interests and been miserable, time to try openly discussing what kind of person I am and seeing if I can be happy.
She took it well, was open to try for me, and I was actually unprepared to talk about it. We were texting and she shared she had bought a sex swing, and having had a couple beers told her I had purchased something too. I ended up telling her about it, I’m sure her mind was twirling with images, none of them erotic, and hadn’t even explained my interests what I wanted or expected. I told her a bit later, gave her time to do some internet searching, and after some questions and answers was still ok with it, well, ok with me but was warming on the idea.
I had already purchased a mature metal jailbird a month before, and had been testing the sizing and wearability for a week. I gave her a key when we met again, I tried to make it as casual as possible, no ceremony or pressure. We made love that night, looked it over, used the key and everything. She didn’t feel the need to keep it on, I was still on cloud 9 after sharing and wearing this thing all week.
I continued to wear it and she must have done some research on it cause she let me go down on her and she got off while used a vibrating dildo on her…she teased me a bit more, and we stopped. I desperately wanted to cum, done anything to cum, but I didn’t ask, and I fell asleep turned on and happy. I still haven’t cum since the first night she took it off me and its maddeningly delightful. We texted all the while when I wasn’t there, she even sent pictures of her holding the key on her necklace(as well as other😍) that kept me at a stage of horny I have never known. God she’s actually getting good at this. She’s never been able to talk about sex before so this is all pretty new to her but she’s doing great.
I told her my limits, not really a lot of them…not into extreme pain, being a maid, potty, or cuckolding. She seemed relieved…I would imagine so, whenever I look up chastity I see super Dom whips, sissy maids, and watching a guy rail his wife. Not bad mouthing it, just not my gig. I like giving up all sexual control, and want her to test my limits on denial and activities I might have to do to achieve release. I don’t mind stoping at any point, and I don’t mind getting to cum. I literally just want her to decide, all the while she has the freedom to pretty much tell me to do anything. After hearing some of my kinks, how far she takes it is up to her. She really can’t push me too far.
I am so happy right now. Not just from the sex,or the teasing, but because I feel we are so open and close now. She already knows more of the real me than anyone else.
Never blogged before so I have 0 followers and I don’t know if anyone will ever see it besides her, but I wanted to document our journey.