It’s been a while so thought I would update my world to my faithful readers. I think I do this for me more now than you guys, anyone wanting answers of how this dynamic works has probably read enough to see how it started and now runs. I do like to share though so for those still interested.
Trust vs choice. I bring this up because recently I went on a little trip, and honestly I think the device helped. When I say helped, I mean it helped her, not really me. I went to a friends surprise birthday party 5 hours away, staying at a hotel for the night. I gave her a kiss goodbye, she told me to have fun and be careful, and I was on my way. I know she trusts me, I know she knows I love her, but I can’t help but feel that me wearing my cage helped divert any apprehension. She didn’t have to worry about it, but I’m certain by her look of peace of mind, that the cage made her feel assured.
Some might say you really can’t trust someone without giving them the opportunity to fail. I also know that I’ve been there. That sinking feeling in your gut, that odd feeling of doubt, insecurity, and panic. Maybe being locked wasn’t helping her with real trust…but the worry free look on her face as I left was no illusion. I don’t suggest anyone wearing a device to prove they will remain loyal or to stop infidelity. I will say that her not having that worry on her shoulders was noticeable and a blessing. My overnight trip, staying in a hotel, with people she didn’t know was met with about the same apprehension as a trip to Walmart.
Which ties into chastity myths. One such myth is that no device is escape proof. Although I would say that is a valid statement, if you can get in it you can get out of it. The effort required and consequences are far more than normal.
Escape 1. Pick the lock. I’m not sure about others, it’s not a skill I happen to already have. Maybe if it was sitting in front of me, but currently the lock is a foot and a half below my eyes, sideways, and attached to me. So picking a lock without being able to see it is a stretch.
Escape 2. Squeeze out. I myself am pierced and it’s attached to the cage, so that is out for me. Even if I wasn’t, and was able to pull the penis out of the top, there is no way of squeezing my balls out from the 7mm gap. That would leave the device hanging there in on your balls. Not exactly in a position to do anything with anyone for sure. Even if you did manage to squeeze your balls through the small gap, there would be no way to squeeze them back in.
Escape 3. Cutting it off. Well I’m pretty sure your kh would notice it being off, in pieces. My device is pretty thick steel, and I certainly wouldn’t want to attempt any cutting. Metal shavings, heat from the cutting, your penis only 2mm away from a rapidly moving blade, and attempting it from an awkward angle a foot and a half from your eyes…no thanks.
So yes they are escape proof, I didn’t say orgasm proof. If someone wants to pick locks blindfolded, rip their balls and penis tip off, or operate high speed cutting equipment around their genitalia, I would call that an exception to the rule.
Myth number two. Permanent. This really gets many chastity lovers into a tizzy. “It’s not permanent if it comes off!!” Oh Jesus gimme a break. Then there is no such thing as permanent because it will and should be removed occasionally. If not for grooming, at least to inspect for hot spots, and possible infections. You won’t feel it if it never gets hard. So, if someone wants to be technical, the lifestyle is permanent, the cage goes on and off as often as the lifestyle permits.
Myth number three. My penis shrunk. No…it didn’t. That would be like saying your leg, hand, or mouth shrank. As much as I adore the term love muscle, it isn’t a muscle. It is a tube shaped bundle of blood vessels and connective tissue covered by skin. When blood flows through those vessels, it gets hard, it stretches the elasticity, that’s as big as it gets. When we stop getting hard, blood isn’t keeping the vessels elasticity, and the blood does not flow like it once did. Did it shrink? Temporarily yes, permanently no. If blood is allowed to stretch those vessels back into an elastic state more frequently, you are back to full size. I myself am not out of my cage enough for that to happen, so yes I’m smaller now, but if I were to have enough time out of my cage it would roar back to its original 3.5 inches . Until then, it doesn’t get much bigger than 2.5.
That ends the mythbusting segment, now current events. My big O. I say my big O because it truly was mine, and was for my benefit only.
It was orgasm number 5 for the year, not that I’m counting or anything lol. She told me she wanted me to cum, I scrambled to get my cage off, and basically with no fore play for her, lubed up and slid into her. She started pushing all my buttons, telling me that she might just stick to toys from now on, how she couldn’t even feel my little dick inside of her, she wanted me to cum and she already knows she won’t cum from my little one inside her. She started playing with my breasts as they were directly above her and that was it. I couldn’t hold it any longer, I asked if I could cum, which at that point I don’t know why, it’s not like I could have stopped. It was wonderful. It was kind of the middle of the night wake me up to fool around kind of fun, so we didn’t explore more options, I wish I would have had time to taste her. It’s been forever since I’ve went down on her and I miss it terribly. I certainly wasn’t complaining though, and locked back up when I woke.
Well that’s pretty much it for us lately. We haven’t really delved any further back into our dominant/submissive dynamic. Although I do things around the house, she hasn’t requested her maid as of yet. She hasn’t disciplined me in a while, no out of cage teasing or ruined orgasms, I think giving her foot rubs has been the extent of her dominance lately lol. I’m sure when she’s ready to start again she’ll jump in with both feet. Until then, just living the locked life.
Have a great thanksgiving!